If I could dream my future life, first would be family. Family is important to me. It’s my support system. It’s my rock. Without a loving, respectable, loyal, dependable, humorous, silly, strong, logical, responsible,romantic disciplined, person I don’t think I could stand up on my feet alone. But I have stood my ground alone before, but with someone next to me, it would make me more loving and happier in life. He has to have the idea of our future as a team together, with happy romantic spontaneous fun times. We would both be silly at heart and comfortable at home where we can do our own things and be ourselves. We would cuddle on the couch and watch movies and shows together. Play games when we can and maybe learn some. When we are out in places, it’d be fun to have adventure but also to try thrilling things like parasailing, jet ski-ing, skydiving etc. We would dress up and go to different asian anime conventions. We would go to technology, gaming, events. We would also go to unique things, whatever we can do to have fun and learn. Concerts are of my past so not many is okay but ones where we both can enjoy the music. He would be my rock and I would be the other half to take care of the things he’s not good at. So complimentary, equal, and independent. We would have at least two kids. It would be nice to have one boy and one girl. But I would be fine with either gender.
The living situation, I’m not sure still if I would want a house or a condo, but I do know I’d like to have two places. But the house or condo first. The One I would want the most is a loft. But that would come secondary. I love the way a loft looks and how modern. It would be fun to just own one. The other would be a house or condo. But I always imagined living in a house with a garden so we wouldn’t have to buy the vegetables all in the grocery. I want the home to be comfortable, homey, warm, loving, a bit colorful, lots of sunlight when needed, not in bedroom, and a tiny bit techie advanced. But mostly comfortable for my family and friends. It doesn’t have to be lavish, luxurious, or modern. The front and backyard don’t have to be too big since taking care of the grass can be tiresome to water everyday. I always considered of having a cat long ago, but being around cats with other relatives, I’ve resorted to have a change with a puppy. Puppies are playful so it’d be nice to have one as company. I’d prefer not a huge dog. I want a small one. A maltese is good. I thought a chow chow would be cool, but probably that is quite a big dog. There has a to be a master bedroom, a guest room, a room or two rooms for the kids. A living room. I don’t care so for a dining room but if we have parties of course we would most likely need one. So a dining room or some kind of party space. A playroom would be good for the kids or husband to have his den. I’d want to have parties, small gatherings with friends for sure. It could be once a month or holidays or whenever we want to have people over. I love having get togethers but money will always be something to be considered first before having one. It’d be nice to have themed ones too like a great Gatsby night, anime parties where we watch a whole run of anime with friends, cooking contest with friends and much more. We would play games too with our friends, board games or video games. Having homemade hotpot at home with friends sounds fun as well. Miss those days.
I’m not sure about office area if we should have one or two of them but probably just one and I’d work in the dining room table. The kitchen would have a granite island and good counter spaces for me and the husband to cook. We would have some kind of food schedule maybe on the fridge so we can budget and have nice dinner nights and take turns cooking. Some nights we could have romantic dinner by the candlelight ones. So I’d like to have a sound system around where we have our dinners. I love music. We would even slow dance sometimes once and a while. In our living room, we would have a nice comfy couch. That is very important. And in the bedroom, we would have the best soft blankets and most comfiest bed so we could sleep good at night for work the next day. I don’t know about basement or attic, but I guess we could both, one or the other for storage space. A pool could be cool to have in the backyard but I’m not pushing it. We would have a terrace or a nice deck area in the back for us and our friends to chill out during the summer time. It would be nice for people to stay over and we would just chat and talk all night to early morning.
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