I never want to be in one. If a guy had a choice, I’d rather jump ship no matter. If there is conflicting feelings with a guy to another girl and me, I’d rather make it an easy option where, I’ll just jump out ship. I don’t ever want to be an option. I was once dating this guy and we had learned enough about each other but there wasn’t any chemistry, there wasn’t any romance, it was just being there to be there I think. He liked this other girl for a long time like for 5 years, and he always wanted to ask her out. So I made it easy for him, I laid it down after he was going to drop me off at home and I asked, what matters to you most? This could mean for his future, his present, and how really does the girl feel about him and him to her. Would she really stay? Would they really be in it for the long haul or would their feelings change? The honeymoon stage is always in feelings of bliss. It always would feel good. But once it hit comfortable, things would change. Or once the one who was pursued has a choice to leave you or stick with you..
He was in midst of dating her while dating me. He knew her longer though. I just met him a month or two ago and started dating him. I made viable points for him, for him and her, and for him and me. It wasn’t so hard. I understood how relationships worked. I knew well enough how it would go and how romance is, how chemistry is, and why things ended up this way and that. It’s just you have a knack of how people work. But in the end after we had that talk, yes we did stop seeing each other. We did stop dating because he pursued her. But I think it was 5 months later, they broke up. She was interested in some other guy that piqued her interest. You already know what kind of person, a person is after knowing them for so long if you studied their behaviors. From what he told me about her, I had a feeling it would be a chance for him but it wouldn’t run long..
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